Never be afraid to ask for help or advice So many times when the boys were little, I needed help. Back then primarily we picked up the phone and called a friend. Now it seems most jump online. As the boys grew up the questions, problems changed and I still found myself picking up the phone and calling on friends-it's amazing how a good friend can get you through just about anything.
I found myself back in the baby business again and there were times I felt like a first time Mom. This year I actually forgot they would have the Easter Bunny up at the mall and tradition with the boys was always to have their picture taken with the bunny. A male friend of mine, with no children actually reminded me- it was a humbling experience :)
Anyways it's nice to have someone to turn to for help, with anything and that's what this thread is for. I recently took advice to heart regarding getting my son to a therapist. It was something I knew needed done, but I just hadn't done it because I kept hoping things would just work out. I also knew he'd put up one heck of a fight going. I talked to a few of my friends about it, also spoke with guidance at school and now he attends on a regular scheduled basis. I just needed a little push and reassuarance, I needed advice.
If you have anything going on that you need help with or some advice about post it here and someone will share what they know with you. It's a good starting point and sometimes just getting the questions out there is a major relief.
Re: Never be afraid to ask for help or advice Asking for help is a major step. Admitting it to yourself is a major step.....both very difficult to do, but they will pay off.
Re: Never be afraid to ask for help or advice Bob....if I ask and admit to you will it pay off??? I had to laugh now when I spotted you in the 'Help' section on the look out for vulnerable ladies I suspect ??? :busted
(ah pet only yanking yer chain.......no........ I won't do it for real that's just a turn of phrase.....*tut*)
--- Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.
Oscar Wilde
Re: Never be afraid to ask for help or advice On a more serious note I do like how Bob made mention of how major a step is to be able to admit the need for help to yourself... that is something that can be so difficult. I know because the children's father, as I have mentioned in a different thread is an alcoholic. He'll go through phases where he admits to the problem and where he completely denies it. When he denies it, it really takes away his ability to live, because he is a slave to the beer can. It's so difficult to watch someone you love, who is so capable miss out on life because they just don't have the ability to ask for help.
