Re: Confused about my brother... (not sure if this is the right forum) I think the only thing you can do is privately let your brother know you know what is going on with him and his SO. That you and the family love him and nothing will ever change that. Let him know that while his disappearing from your lives is painful, the family will always be there for him. Don't lay a gulit trip, just let him know. I have a friend who is gay. He was married with two kids. He now lives with his SO and has had a committment ceremony. He is still very shy and skittish about letting people know about his relationship. Give him some time. He will relax around you guys.
Last patched up by jinzleftbuttcheek, May/14/2007, 8:46 pm
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Friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life. ~Thomas Jefferson
Re: Confused about my brother... (not sure if this is the right forum)
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bnlred wrote:
Guessy, whatever happened with your brother? Are things better?
things are pretty much the same...i'm not at home now though so i don't really know...but i think that he's spending more time at home now because he got my awesome bedroom which was big enough so that he set it up like an apartment...i guess he likes having the privacy so he doesn't mind being home as much now who knows...but i've gotten to spend a lot more time with him since i moved out too, i guess having my own place makes me cooler hehe
Re: Confused about my brother... (not sure if this is the right forum) that's coming around nicely then and how great for your folks as I am sure you moving out had to be a bit emotional. Hopefully things will get back to where they were and everyone will be happy and content. Space can sometimes do so much.
I remember you saying he confided in your hubby to be so I bet he will enjoy coming over to your new pad to visit. That should help things along too.
Glad to hear its working out. I felt so sad for your parents it was obvious how you expressed things it was a difficult time for them.
