Page: 1 2
1lost1
Minion of Mayhem
North Pole
Registered: 10-2006
Posts: 2791

|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Wanna Wow Your Man ~ here's 10 helpers
Wow ~ A ~ Man (sounds like an amusement park ride)
According to Men's Health if you wanna swell his head and make his heart go pitter patter ~ these 10 compliments can get you on the right road
And it you hit him with one of them he might dazzle you with a move like this ~ : f
---
Mayhem of Motherhood
RunBoard Directory Staff
|
|
Jun/28/2007, 11:18 pm
|
Send PM to 1lost1
Yahoo
|
bnlred
Registered user
North Pole
Registered: 07-2006
Posts: 351

|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Wanna Wow Your Man ~ here's 10 helpers
I have to tell you I love the new dancing man! That SNL skit always cracks me up!!
|
|
Jun/29/2007, 10:16 pm
|
Send PM to bnlred
|
1lost1
Minion of Mayhem
North Pole
Registered: 10-2006
Posts: 2791

|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Wanna Wow Your Man ~ here's 10 helpers
We are huge Chris Farley fans here... when I saw it I had to snatch him up (thank you fyh) Had it not been for her introducing us to NCB we would never have Chris in all his glory : b
---
Mayhem of Motherhood
RunBoard Directory Staff
|
|
Jun/29/2007, 11:01 pm
|
Send PM to 1lost1
Yahoo
|
1lost1
Minion of Mayhem
North Pole
Registered: 10-2006
Posts: 2791

|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Wanna Wow Your Man ~ here's 10 helpers
I read and you might have posted it here ... (can't remember), but I know specifically at Queeny's how you and your fellow have a wonderful relationship ~ I think that's just great ~ seriously. Not an easy accomplishment for all. I'm happy for you.
---
Mayhem of Motherhood
RunBoard Directory Staff
|
|
Aug/1/2007, 12:59 am
|
Send PM to 1lost1
Yahoo
|
Ladyhawke
Registered user
North Pole
Under the Tree
Registered: 11-2005
Location: Munion's back porch
Posts: 77

|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Wanna Wow Your Man ~ here's 10 helpers
Thanks...and I believe you had mentioned how you wanted to talk a tad about how we met.
I've known the head admin at Mabus (Paul) for many many years. We'd flirted with the idea of having a long term relationship, but from different states (he from PA and I from WV,) it would have been highly impossible. He then moved to Georgia and met a friend who wanted to start a message board...Mabus. So they did and a bunch of weird, wonderful people from the Yahoo chat room ET-1 came and posted. (Hence the ET Reality Show forum.)
Anyhow Jeffrey, (vampireliketendencies,) flirted with me a little and asked me to join his and Paul's forum, which I did in all honesty to make Paul aggravated since he and I were mad at each other at the time. About six months later this fellow entered Mabus named Feral Shadow. He NEVER came to chat rooms, but he came to that ET-1 room one night and Jeff talked him into posting at Mabus. Seeing as though he was bored that night he did. I also happened to be online posting that night, and we traded posts back and forth, bantering at first and then eventually flirty. Now don't get me wrong, I was NOT (and neither was he,) looking for a relationship in the LEAST. It just...happened. I liked him before I saw his face...I liked his thoughts, I liked how he presented himself, and I was intrigued.
As it turns out we both have myspace pages. We traded sites and when he saw me he told me that he had had dreams of a woman who looked like me...flashes of him being with a woman who looked precisely like me. I was...in a word...freaked out. But I decided to take a chance.
Turns out we lived over 1,000 miles away from each other...
to be continued...
---
|
|
Aug/1/2007, 2:43 am
|
Send PM to Ladyhawke
Blog
|
Ladyhawke
Registered user
North Pole
Under the Tree
Registered: 11-2005
Location: Munion's back porch
Posts: 77

|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Wanna Wow Your Man ~ here's 10 helpers
First of all...you absolutely are not out of line...you've said nothing and asked nothing that my friends and family haven't asked at some point. So I'll start by answering your questions...
To tell you the truth I was flippin' scared out of my mind. We both were. A week after he came here he hadn't called his father and his father later told me he thought his son had been sacrificed to a tree god or raped by strange natives. He was never so glad to hear that he was ok, and he and his son were both in the military being shot at in their time in the service, so he must've really thought something bad had happened to him. lol.
My friends all said I was crazy. It's hard enough to meet someone in the so-called "real world," much less on the internet where there are stalkers and liars galore. I mean in cyberspace you could tell someone you were a 46 year old accountant named Bubba and most would be none the wiser. They offered to meet him with me, as they'd gone on blind dates with me before. But I told them no. I somehow just KNEW that this was different. It's almost impossible to explain.
And my mother...God love her. The first time she saw us in public she stopped us and told him he needed to "march his a$$ right back where he came from and leave her daughter alone." It was at a busy laundromat, we were both highly embarassed. She then told him she was so mad at both of us she could stuff us both in a dryer and turn it on!
She hadn't known much of him because I chose not to tell her, which was a mistake because it made her very untrusting. To this day I should have trusted her more, and I believe she felt I betrayed her on some level by not letting her know. People are very untrusting of what they don't know. She would not have understood anyhow at first, she believes that people should meet in church or through friends, not "the God-awful internet where child abusers go for dates."
I had only used my myspace to contact old high school classmates and to keep in touch with current friends. The fact I had given him the site, AND my cell phone number was unheard of by my girlfriends, who swore up and down I'd probably be signing my own death certificate.
I can't explain it really...it was just this almost automatic, instinctual impulse. Serendepity if you will. Yeah, serendepity. There were so many coincidences that led to us coming together that it at times was both overwhelming, terrifying and exhilirating.
I have had five men in my young and dumb lifetime (I turn 25 Saturday,) tell me they love me. Four of them either went their seperate ways looking for "something better" or waited for me to reciprocate. I couldn't. I've never told someone I loved them unless I meant it. I love very few but those which I do I'd do anything to make their lives better. Three days after I first spoke to *D* (my fellow,) I loved him. I just knew it, and it terrified me. He tried several times to push me away, yet I knew it wasn't for the regular reasons of "I'm seeing someone else, I have an STD, I was only looking for fun, etc, etc." He was scared too. Yet there was this invisible force that kept us going, kept bringing us closer, to the point where if we didn't speak for a day we felt this horrible hole in our heart that couldn't be filled with anything.
So...back to the distance issue. His mother is a strange one, and he's her only child, and when she heard he was planning on visiting a lady from 1,000 miles away she freaked out. She nas never been very...positive in how she makes him feel, very, "Oh you could never do that," sort of mentality. So she gave him quite a bit of trouble over it all, to the point where one day he had enough. He told her quite simply that he loved me and he WAS going to be with me and she'd just have to get over it or he couldn't stay with her much longer. She left it at that shortly afterward. I suppose you can't stop a roller coaster ride if you want to sometimes. Sometimes you just have to get in and hang on for dear life.
I'll never be able to fully explain the first meeting to anyone. It was simply...magic. He had driven more than 16 hours straight, yet he said when he got close to where I worked he perked up and his heart hammered until it threatened to leap from his chest. When I first laid eyes on him, it was like coming home...as if all the roads, all the troubles and heartaches and joys of life were leading to him, to this moment in time. And I knew it was only him who had truly loved me and only him who I had ever loved and would ever truly love.
I'm not as naive as you may think though. I know love has to go beyond the fluffy butterflies and passionate kisses, though I still have both. It was more than that, for that's lust and affection. It's something that goes much deeper, to the point that it's hard to explain. Sitting here right now I miss him so very terribly. It's searing...even today. I can lay my head on his chest and hear his heart quicken and know it's because of me. I can be somewhere else and KNOW...just KNOW he's thinking of me. It's a connection I've never experienced. I know if I hadn't taken a chance I would have missed out on the most beautiful thing that had ever happened to me.
Any and all questions are
---
|
|
Aug/2/2007, 12:51 am
|
Send PM to Ladyhawke
Blog
|
Kourtesan
Registered user
North Pole
Registered: 01-2006
Location: Sub-tropics
Posts: 85

|
|
Reply | Quote
|
|
Re: Wanna Wow Your Man ~ here's 10 helpers
My man treats me like a goddess. I attribute it first to his alpha nature, and second to my training.
--- 
|
|
Sep/15/2007, 7:05 pm
|
Send PM to Kourtesan
AIM
Blog
|
Add a reply
Page: 1 2
Powered by AkBBS 0.9.5b - Link to us
- Blogs
- Hall of Honour
- Chat
Click here to get your own free message board
|