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Gurr
So me and my roomates finally went at it... I am sick of them so now I have to find a new roomate and a new place to live 
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ooh tell me about it
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12/31/2006, 9:12 am
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Let's hear it.
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Here this is what I posted in the bulleting story:
Ok so I have hella people asking me what happened with the roommate thing…
So I have 3 roommates right now.
There is Dave, Traci, and Jason. Dave and Traci are married and Jason is just there… like me…. Dave and Traci rent a house from Dave’s mom. The rent to his mom is 800$ a month. Rent alone me and Jason both pay 450$ a month. That is not including utilities. So just out of that we both pay the actual rent of the house. Dave does not work….. why you may ask….. because he is too picky trying to get jobs he knows he will never get. He has not worked in months… yes months…. He sits at home on the internet like a creepy internet predator. Traci works 60 hours a week just to support his ass.
Ok so this is what started the whole thing… Dave likes to go in my room. Tell me that I need to pick clothes off the floor, I need to throw a Mt. Dew can away, or even better Throw my flowers away that my boyfriend gave me. Mind the fact I am a girl…. Girls don’t throw flowers away! I would come home to little notes that’s said I needed to do something in my room and well basically trying to be a parent to me…. I never said anything either…. So now that I am never home, I only come home to shower, do laundry, or get clothes, he always makes smart ass comments to me… like when I went home during lunch on Tuesday to start a load of laundry. My friend Steve went with me and He sat on the couch and I went to my room to grab clothes, as I am walking to the washer Dave says “Oh that’s why you came home”. Then me and Steve left to go get food. We stopped back at the end of lunch so I could throw my stuff in the dryer and we were waiting for the washer to stop and we are watchin TV and Dave says ‘Wow you even have time to check you precious myspace’. Steve and I just looked at each other and I got up and moved my laundry over and left. I was soo pissed off that I came to work and sent him this IM. And we had this conversation:
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1/2/2007, 2:17 am
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[15:24] Bäng Bäng: i just wanted to let you know I don't appreciate you smart ass comments when I do show up to the house....
[15:26] Dave Hetterly, IV: Sorry, It wasn't meant to be 'smart ass'. BTW are you talking about when you came home today?
[15:26] Bäng Bäng: yeah or about any other time I have been there lately.... it seems like it is because I am never there and I only come home to shower or do laundry..... and ever so often to jump on the PC for a few....
[15:28] Dave Hetterly, IV: Well, this kind of explains why you have been giving me the cold shoulder for the past few weeks. Sorry. Why don't we talk about this more later?
[15:30] Bäng Bäng: well I have plans... and it really isn’t the cold shoulder I am just avoiding a fight because when I am there is it fights enough between your and Traci.... so I just chose not to be there and I don’t have a problem with that.... it is just that it bugs me that every time I am there even for a few hours it seems like you have a smart ass comment for everything..... soo today I just finally had it and that’s why I wanted to say something....
[15:31] Bäng Bäng: so I am fine and content with just letting you know I had a problem with it.
[15:32] Dave Hetterly, IV: That is fine. We still need to get together soon and talk about some other things. I will lay off of the comments. I did not think that they would be construed in that manner.
[15:32] Bäng Bäng: I will be there just for a few when i get off and that’s just to move my laundry to my room and pick up clothes.....
[15:33] Dave Hetterly, IV: Okay, if Traci and I are home, we can talk then. Otherwise, we will talk this week. Talk to you later. Gotta go fight with Traci at dinner. LOL
[15:34] Bäng Bäng: ok well I will see if I can make time I am up to working 6 days a week now
[15:34] Bäng Bäng: plus church soo.....
[15:34] Dave Hetterly, IV: k. ttfn
So I am still pissed off at that point because he basically blew me off and didn’t want to resolve anything. And again he wanted me to go out of my way to ‘talk’ to him. So by the point I am irate. I get off work and I go home and I decided that I was going to make my room totally spotless that way he couldn’t try and ***** about that and parent me on that more than he already does. So when I was done cleaning my room I printed out a sign that said “My room is clean Please stay out of it” I put it on my door and then I left to go to dinner with my friend Kiera. When I came back home I was standing at the door putting my key in and all I hear is yelling about who ever is going in my room needs to stay out. I walked in and said ‘Could you guys ***** more about me?” and I walked towards the fridge to go put my food in it. As I was over there Dave said “I don’t go in there” I turned around and said ‘bull **** you are the only one that goes in there!’ then he said “I only open the door” and I said ‘that is going in my room, I don’t go in your room, I don’t open your door, I don’t tell you that you need to pick **** off the floor, I don’t tell you how to live, (point to my room now) this is my personal bubble just stay out of it.” He just stared at me and I grabbed my charger and walked out.
I came home the next morning still a little angry and I got ready for work, Came to work and then we had this conversation:
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(Kinda long I know)
[09:57] Bäng Bäng: I just want to let you know I am not going to 'make time' to have a talk to whatever it is that you seem to think that we have to talk about. But I am going to ask for a copy of all the bills because I have a very strong feeling the bills are not being split 4 ways like they are suppose to since you are not working. I am not trying to sound like a ***** or anything but I finally had enough of it and coming home last night to hear more *****ing wasn't helping so I will be there only to do my thing like I have been. Also I will not be paying 100$ for groceries each month because I know there is no way in hell that there is 400$ worth of food in that house that you guys buy a month. I will be buying my own groceries since I am hardly home and I don't eat there majority of the time when I am there. So I will not longer eat anything in that house.
[10:01] Bäng Bäng: Also I will be putting a lock on my door at the end of this week.
[10:03] Dave Hetterly, IV: We are not changing doors in this house. If you feel that your privacy is violated to that extreme. You need to realize that other people in this house feel their privacy is violated. Traci has commented that things have shown up missing from her desk.
[10:03] Dave Hetterly, IV: We do not know who is doing it.
[10:03] Dave Hetterly, IV: But she has not put locks on her desk.
[10:05] Bäng Bäng: well you can blame whatever on whoever but her desk is in a community area so that could be anyone and I am putting a lock on my door. You stated when I moved in I could out a lock on my door and I am not drilling any holes in the door. And you can blame me for whatever is missing from her desk but think about it... I am never there obviously.
[10:06] Bäng Bäng: and obviously I do feel that my privacy is violated and I have felt that way for a long time and I finally had enough. You act like my parent and you are not.
[10:06] Dave Hetterly, IV: I am not your parent. I have never told you to clean your room.
[10:06] Dave Hetterly, IV: I have told you to keep food out of your room
[10:06] Dave Hetterly, IV: I have told you that clothes should be off of the floor.
[10:07] Dave Hetterly, IV: That is it.
[10:07] Bäng Bäng: yes you have..... You told me that plenty of time and you have told me to pick stuff off my floor
[10:07] Bäng Bäng: that’s acting like a parent
[10:07] Bäng Bäng: I don't tell you how to live
[10:07] Dave Hetterly, IV: I am not living in a house of roaches because you want to leave food in the room that nobody should be in except you.
[10:07] Bäng Bäng: I don't tell you how you should put things in your room.... you went on and on for weeks about clothes on my floor and I didn’t say anything...
[10:07] Dave Hetterly, IV: We don't have clothes on the floor. They are in hampers
[10:08] Bäng Bäng: the food thing was done with and you tripped out over a paper plate and I threw it away and think about it roaches come the **** on dude.... that **** would have to be sitting there for weeks....
[10:08] Bäng Bäng: and that’s how you live... I put my things on the floor.....
[10:08] Dave Hetterly, IV: That is unacceptable here.
[10:08] Bäng Bäng: because I don't live like you and Tracy doesn’t mean I have to adjust my time and my life to meet your accommodation
[10:09] Bäng Bäng: there you acting like a parent
[10:09] Dave Hetterly, IV: You are correct.
[10:09] Dave Hetterly, IV: We live a certain way. And I have very few rules that should be considered when living here. They were talked about when we all moved in, right?
[10:10] Bäng Bäng: yup.... you have your pet peeves and well how I live with my CLEAN clothes on the floor should not concern you. I pay rent and that is my personal area and that is not causing 'bugs' or whatever you seem to think will come of it.
[10:10] Dave Hetterly, IV: I have been very kind about the level of cleanliness in this house. Every body should be contributing in some fashion. And I have not said anything about your room in weeks!
[10:11] Bäng Bäng: I am past that I cleaned my room and you haven’t said anything because I haven’t been there and you smart ass comments when I came home didn’t help.... that’s what finally pushed me over the edge.... I will be putting a lock on my door
[10:11] Bäng Bäng: don’t you have a lock on your door?
[10:11] Dave Hetterly, IV: And you may pay rent, but you don't pay it on time. And we had talked about that before when you questioned the validity of what you owe.
[10:11] Dave Hetterly, IV: No lock on our door.
[10:12] Bäng Bäng: not talking about a key one...
[10:12] Bäng Bäng: just a door knob with a lock?
[10:12] Dave Hetterly, IV: If there is a lock. It is irrelevant because our double door is broken
[10:12] Bäng Bäng: soo... I haven’t violated your privacy I don't go in your room and tell you how to live... I don't open your door.
[10:12] Bäng Bäng: you do that to me and I am not happy about it and I WILL BE PUTTING A LOCK ON IT
[10:13] Bäng Bäng: and I still want to see all the bills from the last 2 months to verify for myself they are being spilt 4 ways
[10:15] Dave Hetterly, IV: I will give you copies of the bills for the past two months. You will be finding a new place to live. This is not what we agreed on and you can't change the rules midway through without notice. If you were not planning on buying groceries and not planning to be here, you should have said something at the beginning of the month, not when the bill is due.
[10:15] Bäng Bäng: I don’t have a problem paying bills I am arguing what you are charging me even if I was there....
[10:16] Dave Hetterly, IV: Once again. You can't change the rules at the end when the bill is due.
[10:16] Bäng Bäng: and I will find a new place until I decided to give you my 30 days notice or you can go down to the court house and get a legal eviction notice.
[10:16] Bäng Bäng: I wasn’t changing the rules. you don't work you sit on your ass all day long not making money and I know the bills are not right just like you did last month trying to 'adjust it accordingly'
[10:17] Dave Hetterly, IV: I don't need a legal eviction notice. Because of late payment. Because I know you will be late this month. I can give you 5 days. I can be fair about this. I want to be fair about this. But I also want to be adult about this. No one wins when we involve the court.
[10:17] Dave Hetterly, IV: No I am insulted.
[10:17] Bäng Bäng: legally it is 30 days I found out and I already contacted a lawyer
[10:18] Bäng Bäng: this is my 30 days notice. I am not living with another parent and I am sorry if you are offended but join the club. 
[10:19] Bäng Bäng: I will even give you a free membership.
[10:20] Dave Hetterly, IV: Well I can tell that we both do not agree on this. So until I can give you the bills to prove to you that everything has been split 4 ways, we should not be talking about getting each other stressed about it.
[10:20] Dave Hetterly, IV: I will let you know. We both need to calm down
[10:22] Bäng Bäng: I agree not to talk until I come by at the end of the week to pick up the copies and I will not be sitting down to chat.... I will keep doing my own thing.
[10:24] Dave Hetterly, IV: That's fine. It would appear that you would rather resolve this over the computer. If that is how you want to handle this, I can do that. I have always been reasonable. I am sorry that you feel this is not the case.
[10:36] Bäng Bäng: Well to think about it I will not be clam enough to talk about you face to face because I am not going to fight with you like that, you fight enough like that with your wife. So I am fine with coming and going when I need to and doing my own thing like I have been.
[10:36] Bäng Bäng: +
[10:37] Bäng Bäng: opps sorry ^^^ accident + sign
[10:39] Dave Hetterly, IV: I think that you misjudge me when it comes to some of the 'fights and disagreements' that Traci and I have. If those have offended you and Jason, I am sorry. Some of our frustrations and arguments are stemmed from you and Jason. Not all of them so it is not the fault of either of you. I am sorry about that. I can be reasonable as long as all parties are and are not attaching. I know I can rise...
[10:39] Dave Hetterly, IV: my voice and sometimes it sounds violent. But I try very hard not to be verbally destructive and stay focused on the issues at hand.
[10:42] Bäng Bäng: Well I am tired of it. it is one of the reasons I don’t go there... not the fact that I work all the time and I don’t have much time for anything else but going there to hear more people ***** is something I don't want to hear or sitting in my room to listen to slamming doors and literal screaming across the house.... or waking up to screaming either....
[10:43] Dave Hetterly, IV: Personally, I think that you are referring to Christmas Eve. But you are entitled to you opinion. We do not argue as much as you imply.
[10:44] Dave Hetterly, IV: At least, I don't think that we do.
[10:44] Bäng Bäng: well there has been more than one occasion but it is none of my business I could care less I am saying that I am not going to argue with you in person because there is enough of that going on already
[12:07] Dave Hetterly, IV: Sami, I have been gathering all of the data that you have requested. Do you want me to email it to you, make a copy and place in your bin, or attach in an instant message?
[12:09] Bäng Bäng: just put it in my bin
[12:09] Dave Hetterly, IV: Okay.
So it is final I am moving out…. I don’t need more parents and I don’t need to live someone who is going into my place.
But that is it
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Wow! that guy is a jerk! you handled yourself pretty well. i would have been spitting out cuss nasties by the end of it.
Any prospects on new places? and is he talking legit that the bills have been split 4 ways? Lawyers are fun! you should **** him over.
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I am looking at places and i have to be out by the 27th. Today he aske dme when i was going to pay rent and i keep making up **** so i dont have to pay him and i dont plan on paying him becasue he is a ****. I got the bills and reciepts and the guy goes through 6 gallons of Crown in a month and I am not going to pay for that..... gurr i hate this guy
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Just kick the ****er out! You don't pay rent, you don't have a place to live. End of story.
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so the grocery money was going towards alcohol? or he really is just a bum that mooches on others. How sad.
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